Everyday, I hear about broken marriages, cheating boyfriends/girlfriends, complicated relationships and broken souls.
Everyday, I look at every corner and as as things became clear I see how the society is broken. The technology improves, yet every soul become more and more lost.
And everyday, as I hear and see things and people and problems and stories, I respect and love my husband a little more.
For the most of you that know who I am, you will know how rare I appear with my husband. I often describe my husband as an introvert, someone who is loving and caring and although quiet, can be trusted.
For awhile I didn't know how to handle his silence. He never complain to me, nor does he share with me his problems and stress.
Does he have any?
Yes I know he does.
Yet he kept silence and for the first year we got married, and I am often frustrated and lost because of his silence.
But as another year passed, and another year passed.
And I learn more and more about my husband.
Although he still kept silence, and never utter a word of stress to me.
I soon learn that his silence meant his love and care.
And all I have to do?
Is to trust him.
The first year we got married, I thought he wasn't romantic, not even a single inch.
Then the more I hear, the more I see.
Romantic man that have done so much elaborate events and gave so much presents to ladies, they don't stay romantic to one single lady.
Yet my husband?
I watch as his silence shown me trust.
I watch as his hugs gave me strength.
I watch as his kisses never ended.
I watch as his patience never cease.
I watch as his actions prove his love.
And he became the most romantic man I ever known and loved.
The first year we got married, I thought his silence would kill our marriage.
Then the more I grow, the more I saw.
Many men with many lovely words, they said it to so many others.
Yet my husband?
His actions gain my trust.
In such a generation we are in right now, cheating seems such an easy line to cross.
Technology continues to improve and it becomes easier and easier for us to get lost in the world filled with beautiful, amazing, new adventures.
Will my husband never cheat on me? I will never know.
Will I never cheat on him? I will never know.
The border seems to easy to cross.
But for now, the both of us?
I'm in love. And as long as trust is build between us, I am willing to believe that we will never cheat.
Because as days continue passing by, and as we continue to grow, so many more challenges will come our way.
A friend ask me once, how do I cope with being a wife, a mother and still be building a business? I told him I must be awesome, but the truth is because I have a great enough husband that is willing to trust me and love me no matter my imperfections.
And the more love I've received from him, the more I want to contribute to lessen his burden.
People ask me why I have big dreams and why I am motivated, now I hope you understand.
Because I am grateful for having my husband and my son, and I want us to last for a long long time, enjoying moments and growth instead of continue to struggle in life for many many more years to come.
We can grow in love, and we can grow out of love.
And I hope, for many many more years to come, when I grow in love and grow out of love and grow in love again, the man will still be my husband.